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Cate." ], "opinions": [ { "text": "CocKRILL, C. J.\nIn order to have relief from the bonds 0f matrimony, it is not required that the complaining party be without fault, for the law, having to deal with the weakness of human nature, measures the reciprocal conduct of the married couple by the standard of common experience, rather than by the higher morality of religious duty. But when the parties are in pari delicto \u2014 the conduct of each being a constant aggravation to further offense by the other \u2014 the courts ought not to interfere at the instance of either. Cruel and barbarous treatment endangering life, or indignities to the person which render the condition of either party intolerable, is a cause of divorce under the statute. Mansf. Dig., sec. 2556. The latter provision does not require that a party shall show that she, or he, lives in a state of danger or apprehension of personal violence, in order to warrant judicial interference. Haley v. Haley, 44 Ark., 429. But the courts are not quick to interfere in domestic quarrels, and where the parties are equally at fault, it must be shown at least that there is something that makes cohabitation unsafe, to move the courts to interfere. Unhappiness sufficient to render the condition of both parties intolerable may arise from the mutual neglect of the conjugal duties; but when the parties are thus at fault, the remedy must be sought by them, not in the courts, but in the reformation of their conduct. The remedy is in their own hands, and, until it has been tried without effect by the party complaining, the courts will not give effect to the complaint. Until this home remedy has been tested and failed, the condition of each may be said to be due to his or her own acts, and one must bear the consequences of his own misconduct.\nBoth husband and wife are seeking a divorce in this case. The testimony shows ill-temper and petulance on the part of the wife, settling at times into morbid bad humor, and breaking out into violent conduct toward her step-children, and prompting the use of harsh epithets to them and her husband,, and sometimes of unclean language; but her conduct, while in general unjustifiable, is often only the natural response of a much neglected wife, goaded by the unchecked gibes of the husband\u2019s children by a former marriage, and aggravated by his ungenerous notion that she had not advanced in education since marriage, to keep pace with his assumed superiority. It is not necessary to recapitulate the evidence and determine whether the conduct of either would be sufficient to warrant a divorce, provided the other was less guilty. It is immaterial, for we find them about equally in fault, and an. application of the legal principle above set forth to the facts, of the case, which we have examined with care, leaves neither in a position to demand the interposition of the court.\nThe decree refused relief to the husband. To that extent it is right, and is affirmed. The court should have declined to interfere at the suit of the wife. The decree granting her a divorce and alimony will be reversed, and her cross-complaint dismissed.\nIt is so ordered.", "type": "majority", "author": "CocKRILL, C. J." } ], "attorneys": [ "Atkinson & Tompkins and Crawford & Crawford for appellant.", "Murry & Kinsworthy for appellee." ], "corrections": "", "head_matter": "Cate v. Cate.\nDecided November 1, 1890.\nDivorce \u2014 Recrimination\u2014Husband and wife in pari delicto.\nWhere the husband sued for a divorce from the bonds of matrimony upon the ground of desertion, and, in a cross-action for the same relief, the wife alleged that he was guilty of such indignities to her person as rendered her condition intolerable, no relief will be afforded to either party if the testimony discloses that they are equally in fault.\nAPPEAL from Clark Circuit Court in Chancery.\nRufus D. Hearn, Judge.\nAppellant filed a bill for a divorce from appellee, his wife, upon the ground of desertion. She filed an answer, denying that she deserted him without cause, and a cross-bill which alleged that he was guilty of such conduct as to render her condition intolerable. The court refused the husband\u2019s prayer for relief, and decreed a divorce upon the wife\u2019s cross-bill, and awarded her alimony and the custody of their three minor children.\nAtkinson & Tompkins and Crawford & Crawford for appellant.\n1. The appellee was not entitled to divorce, either upon the grounds of cruel and barbarous treatment, desertion, failure to support, or intolerable indignities. 2 Hagg., 35; 1 Phill., hi; 1 Eng. Eccl. Rep., 210; 104 Mass., 198; 14 Cal., 159; 31 Iowa, 451; 1 Barb. Chy., 515 ; 49 Md., 514; Brayton (Vt.), 55; 8 C. E. Green (N. J.), 338; 33 Iowa, 238; 1 Hagg., 331; 21 N. J. Eq., 3331 23 Pa. St., 345; 43 Iowa, 325; 33 N. 'J. Eq., 151; 22 N. J. Eq., 90; 2 Bish., Mar. & Div., sec. 654; 1 C. E. Green, 280.\nBut conceding that appellant was guilty of the acts charged, and that they constituted cruelty, she cannot complain. She does not come into court with clean hands, she was at least equally guilty, and in such cases courts grant no relief, x Eng. Eccl. Rep., 210; 6 Eng. Eccl. Rep., 81; 5 Wis., 449; 8N.H., 307; 63 Tex., 34; 47 Tex., 336; 5 La. An., 33; 2 Eng. Eccl. Rep., 158; 14 Cal., 459; 26 Mo., 545.\n2. Appellant was entitled to a divorce. She \"willfully\u201d \u25a0deserted him without reasonable cause. The \"reasonable cause\u201d which would justify her in deserting him must be such as would entitle her to a divorce. If her own conduct was the provoking cause of his treatment of her, then she was not justifiable in her desertion. 2 Hagg,, 35 ; 2 Bish., Mar. & Div., secs. 88,92, 93; 49 Md., 514; 2 B. Mon., 146; :8 C. E. Green (N. J.), 338; 33 Iowa, 238; 1 Pars. (Pa.), 329; 34 Ark., 41; 20 Cal., 431; 22 Gratt., 168.\n3. It was error to award appellee the custody of the children. 2 Bish., Mar. & Div., sec. 534 b\\ 44 Ark., 429; Mansf. Dig., sec. 3465.\nThe good of the children should have been consulted. 2 Bish., Mar. & Div., sec. 532; 22 Gratt., 174.\nMurry & Kinsworthy for appellee.\nAppellee was entitled to a divorce:\n1. Because of indignities rendering her condition intol \u00abable. 9 Ark., 507; 38 Ark., 119; 38 Ark., 324; 33 Ark., 156; 44 Ark., 429; Stewart, Mar. & Div., sec. 350; 13 Cent., 135; no N. Y., 183; 17 N. Y., S. R., 175 ; 17 N. E. Rep., 739.\n2. Because, of cruelty. 17 Pac. Rep., 912; 11 Col., 319; 83 Va., 806; 76 Ga., 319; 6 S. E. Rep., 630; 39 La. An., 491; 2 S. O., 181.\n3. Appellant was not entitled to a divorce. She did not \"willfully\u201d desert him for twelve months. To establish desertion three things must be proven. (1) Cessation of cohabitation; (2) intention not to resume; (3) absence of complainant\u2019s consent, or conduct justifying it. Stew., Mar. & Div., see. 251; 1 Bish., Mar. & Div., see. 776; Mansf. Dig., sec. 254. The charge is not proven, and the wife is not supposed to intend to desert until it is proven. Stew., Mar. & Div., secs. 255, 252, 345; 1 Bish. on Mar. & Div., secs. 786-7; 2 Bish. on Mar. & Div., secs, 783, 810; 5 Iowa, 232; 20 Ala., 168; Wright, 147.\n4. The evidence shows the appellant\u2019s consent to her leaving, and that he was anxious to rid himself of her, and that he was all the while consenting for her to leave. 1 Bish., Mar. & Div., secs. 795, 808; 1 Bish., Mar. & Div., sec. 787; 2 West (Mo. App.), 567; Stew., Mar. & Div., sec. 257-\n5. It is not necessary that the wife should be wholly blameless. 44 Ark., 434; 9 Ark., 507; 38 Ark., 121, and cases supra.\n6. The custody of the children is in the sound discretion of the court. Mansf. Dig., sec. 2565. The court did not abuse this discretion. Stew., Mar. & Div., sec. 402; 76 Ill., 399, 407, 409. The children should be given to the party not at fault. 16 Ore., 485; 2 Bish., Mar. & Div., secs. 544, 534; 44 Ark., 429." }, "file_name": "0484-01", "first_page_order": 508, "last_page_order": 512 }