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Lowrance, Defendant-Appellant." ], "opinions": [ { "text": "Mr. JUSTICE HALLETT\ndelivered the opinion of the court:\nIn December, 1973, the circuit court found that the defendant had been guilty of extreme and repeated mental cruelty towards the plaintiff and granted the wife a divorce, alimony in gross and attorney\u2019s fees. The defendant has appealed, on the sole ground that, under the present state of Illinois law, the finding is contrary to the manifest weight of the evidence. Regretfully, we agree and reverse. \u25a0\nThe parties were married in 1934 and raised four children, all of whom are grown and gone. Although the parties have occupied separate bedrooms since January, 1973, they have continued to reside under the same roof.\nWithout going into specific details, suffice it to say that the acts complained of are (1) remote in time insofar as the date of separation is concerned; or are (2) pretty sparse in the totality of a 30-year marriage; or (3) occurred after the separation precipitated by her; or (4) were in part provoked by her. \u2019 :-\nFor example, the. defendant is said to have used vile language towards \u2022the plaintiff in 1971, 2 years before they separated. He also suggested that she clean the recreation room in 1972. Five years before the separation, he threatened to leave her and sell the home. :On. some three.occasions he allegedly belittled her in the presence of friends, but these were some 4 years before the separation, \u2022\n\u2022 Throughout the marriage the parties have had difficulty in communicating, and would avoid each other, the defendant .often writing notes instead of communicating orally. He also sometimes drank on the way home from work. Money was also a problem. He gave her little and she had to ask for it, so she worked to support herself and their children. The plaintiffs testimony as to her mental pain and anxieties, nervousness and irritability related to events occurring after their separation which she herself imposed. The evidence also suggested that the plaintiffs nagging, fits of anger and breaking off of communications precipitated the defendant\u2019s profanity, indifference and drinking.\n. The obvious fact is that, regardless of fault, this marriage is- dead and the parties do not intend to and probably will never again live together as husband and wife. But under the present state of the law in Illinois this is not enough.\nAs was said by Mr. Justice Davis, in Stanard v. Stanard (1969), 108 Ill. App.2d 240, 249, 247 N.E.2d 438, in reversing a decree granting a divorce:\n\u201cApparently, the trial court was moved by the fact that this marriage was obviously dead; that the parties had not lived together for some time, and would not now do so; and that to permit the marriage to continue would simply be continuing an existence of a status which is a constant source of friction.\u2019 The observations of the trial court are patently correct.\nHowever, as has been reiterated time and again, the law favors the preservation of the estate of marriage and will dissolve a marriage only upon sufficient proof of the grounds set forth under the statute. People ex rel. Doty v. Connell, 9 Ill.2d 390, 394, 137 N.E.2d 849 (1956); Kinsley v. Kinsley, 388 Ill. 194, 197, 57 N.E.2d 449 (1944).\u201d\nIn Akin v. Akin (1970), 125 Ill.App.2d 159, 167-68, 260 N.E.2d 481, the court, in reversing a decree of divorce, said:\n\u201cWe recognize, as the trial court apparently did, that divorce might be a better solution than separate maintenance, as the parties have apparently separated permanently without a chance for reconciliation. However, the wife elected to have her remedy in separate maintenance and is contesting the complaint for divorce. Divorce cannot be forced upon her, as divorce can only be granted upon sufficient proof of the grounds set forth under statute. Anything short of the requirements therein will not suffice. Stanard v. Stanard, 108 Ill.App.2d 240, 249, 247 N.E.2d 438.\u201d\nIn- Quilty v. Quilty (1972), 5 Ill.App.3d 801, 803, 284 N.E.2d 690, in reversing a decree of divorce, the court said:\n\u201cConduct to be considered extreme and repeated mental cruelty must be such as to. cause, embarrassment, humiliation and anguish so as to render life miserable and unendurable or to cause the plaintiffs life, person, or health to be endangered. Stanard v. Stanard, 108 Ill.App.2d 240, 247 N.E.2d 438; Hayes v. Hayes, 117 Ill.App.2d 211, 254 N.E.2d 288 andAkin v. Akin, 125 Ill.App.2d 159, 260 N.E.2d 481.\nAfter considering aU of the evidence in its aspect most favorable to counteiplaintiff it is our conclusion that there is an absence of evidence supporting counter-plaintiff\u2019s charges when considered in the light of the foregoing rules - * *\nAgain, in Sharpe v. Sharpe (1973), 9 Ill.App.3d 667, 670, 292 N.E.2d 566, in afBrming the refusal of a divorce, this court said:\n\u201cTurning then to the instant case, the trial court was not impressed by the alleged acts of mental- cruelty purportedly committed by the husband herein.' In substance, the comments of the trial judge were that the Divorce Act of the State of Illinois had not-yet reached the point where incompatibility would be the grounds for a divorce. The substance of plaintiffs testimony pertaining to mental pain and suffering, her loss of weight and use of tranquilizers arose after the separation of the parties, which separation does not appear to be voluntary on the part of the defendant, but at the request of the plaintiff.\nWhile it is true that this marriage has doubtless reached the point where reconciliation is not possible, it is not the function of the courts to determine that parties to an impossible marriage situation are entitled to a divorce merely on the grounds that they cannot live together. It is the function of the legislative branch of the government of this State to determine whether or not divorces should be granted regardless of fault.\u201d\nIn Farnbach v. Farnbach (1971), 1 Ill.App.3d 74, 77, 273 N.E.2d 12, \u25a0 in reversing a decree of divorce, the court said:\n\u201cIt has been repeatedly held that it is the duty of the State to guard the marital relation and that it be not lightly terminated. In re Fisher, 15 Ill.2d 139, 153 N.E.2d 832; Johnson v. Johnson, 381 Ill. 362, 370, 45 N.E.2d 625; The People ex rel. Doty v. Connell, 9 Ill.2d 390, 394, 137 N.E.2d 849; and Kinsley v. Kinsley, 388 Ill. 194, 197; 57 N.E.2d 449.\nAccordingly, as stated in Stanard, even though the trial court might conclude that the marriage was obviously dead\u2019, it would not be authorized to excuse plaintiff from proving her case by competent evidence using the statutory grounds as a basis.\nPlaintiff has1 failed to prove any intentional course of conduct engaged in by defendant which was calculated to, or did in fact, result in injuring her physical or emotional health, Mere disagreement of the parties or disillusionment with the marriage is insufficient.\u201d\nPerhaps the latest on this subject is Gregory v. Gregory (1974), 24 Ill. App.3d 436, 440-41, 321 N.E.2d 122, where this court, in reversing a decree of divorce, said:\n\u201cOur legislature has the sole power to determine what causes, if any, must be established in order for one of the State\u2019s residents to be entitled to a divorce. While other jurisdictions in recent years have recognized the countervailing consideration that much harm may result from a denial of a divorce where the marriage has ended in fact (24 Am. Jr. 2d Divorce and Separation, \u00a79), the public policy of our State is to preserve the marriage. (Stanard v. Stanard, 108 Ill.App.2d 240, 249 (1969).) The law in Illinois remains that a marriage should not be lightly terminated. A plaintiff is required to prove a statutory cause for divorce by competent evidence, even though the court might conclude the marriage to be dead. McGowan v. McGowan, 15 Ill.App.3d 913, 915 (1973).\n# # \u00dc\nThe record reveals that, under the law, neither party met the quantum of proof necessary to support a decree of divorce based upon mental cruelty. Plaintiff testified that at sporadic times during the marriage defendant\u2019s conduct embarrassed and humiliated him, but he failed to establish that defendant\u2019s conduct was calculated or obviously of a nature to torture, discommode or render his life unendurable or miserable and actually affected his physical and mental health. Incidents of humiliation, by themselves, are not sufficient to cause mental cruelty. Defendant\u2019s evidence on her counterclaim fails for the same reason.\u201d\nThe above quote from Gregory pretty well summarizes the situation in the case at bar.\nAs a result, although we agree that the marriage is dead, we conclude and hold that the trial court\u2019s finding that the defendant was guilty of extreme and repeated mental cruelty towards the plaintiff is contrary to the manifest weight of tire evidence.\nAccordingly, the decree is reversed.\nReversed.\nSEIDENFELD, P. J., and GUILD, J., concur.", "type": "majority", "author": "Mr. JUSTICE HALLETT" } ], "attorneys": [ "Wayne B. Flanigan, of Wasneski, Yastrow, Kusesld & Flanigan, of Waukegan, for appellant.", "Dennis P. Daly, of Daly & Daly, of Waukegan, for appellee." ], "corrections": "", "head_matter": "Betty F. Lowrance, Plaintiff-Appellee, v. Ernest C. Lowrance, Defendant-Appellant.\n(No. 74-55;\nSecond District (1st Division)\nAugust 28, 1975.\nRehearing denied October 3, 1975.\nWayne B. Flanigan, of Wasneski, Yastrow, Kusesld & Flanigan, of Waukegan, for appellant.\nDennis P. Daly, of Daly & Daly, of Waukegan, for appellee." }, "file_name": "0682-01", "first_page_order": 706, "last_page_order": 709 }