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  "id": 5086842,
  "name": "Robert Porter v. Mary A. Porter",
  "name_abbreviation": "Porter v. Porter",
  "decision_date": "1895-06-03",
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  "first_page": "670",
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    "parties": [
      "Robert Porter v. Mary A. Porter."
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        "text": "Mr. Presiding Justice Waterman\ndelivered the opinion of the Court.\nThis ivas a suit for separate maintenance.\nAppellee married a widower tAventv years her senior, he having a grown-up daughter living with him. She took her sister to live with her and insisted against her husband\u2019s adidce upon having her brother James come to live with them. Appellant told her that he had a young girl growing up and James was a young man, and the way the rooms were situated, he, appellant, did not think it would be a good thing to have James come; it might create trouble. Her brother John also came to live in the family.\nThey lived, he testifies, for one year harmoniously; she now complains that she was not provided with such money for clothing or with such help and medical attendance as she needed.\nHe was in debt, his property was mortgaged, much of it entirely unproductive; his income being derived from a livery business which he carried on and in which he worked.\nThere is no evidence tending to show that his income was over $1,500 per annum. All that he possessed he had gained by hard work, and it could be kept only by constant attention and prudence. He evidently appreciated the necessity for economy more than did she; but that she had any cause in this regard for complaint there is no evidence, such as ought to move a court of equity to take out of his hands the control of the question as to in what style he should maintain appellee. \u2022\nAfter a time he became suspicious of the conduct of her brother James, whom, against his remonstrance, she had brought into his family. This brother, he feared, was unduly intimate with his daughter, and told appellee so; she treated the fear lightly, as unwarranted and unjust.\nThe daughter was found to be pregnant and she declared that appellee\u2019s brother James was the father of her child.\nAppellant says that he went to the stock yards to find James; that James avoided him.\nAppellant told appellee that James must leave the house; she said that she did not like to have him leave, but he did depart. Whereupon appellee forsook appellant\u2019s bed and took up her abode in the room above, which her brother had vacated. To this appellant objected, but she persisted and never returned. Appellant says that after this, things were unpleasant.\nAfter living in this way for some time, he went to her room and gave her twenty dollars. Their marital relations were resumed, although they seem to have continued, she to sleep up and he down stairs.\nAppellant\u2019s son was very fond of his father, who says he noticed that appellee wished to wean little Harold from him; that the boy had the habit of running toward him saying, \u201c Hullo, pa, I will kill you.\u201d Appellant thus describes what followed:\nHe did this a great many times, and I says to him, \u201c Harold, where in the world did you learn that ? \u201d \u201c Oh, I don\u2019t know,\u201d was all the answer I could get, and I asked Mrs. Porter how he learned that. He heard the boys say so out doors. \u201cWell,\u201d says I,' \u201c now this is very strange.\u201d\nOn this particular night I came home about half past eight o\u2019clock. There was no one in the house. I sat down stairs until she came home. He came running towards me, and says, \u201c Hullo, pa, I will kill you.\u201d And I says, \u201c Harold, who in the world is learning you bad talk ? Some one must be learning you it. I am afraid you are getting bad bringing up.\u201d And she flew into a passion and she says, \u201c I would hope that he was getting better bringing up than your daughter, Lili.\u201d I says to her, \u201c Marne, what do you mean?\u201d \u201c Well,\u201d she says, \u201cImean that you are nothing but a brute. That you have been intimate with your own daughter.\u201d That is what she said, and that was the cause of the trouble. I says, \u201cYou dirty, vile woman. If you were a man I don\u2019t know ivhat I would do. You know it is lies from beginning to end. As long as you think that of me it is an impossibility for you and I ever to live together as man and wife.\u201d She went up stairs. In the morning I says, \u201c Mame, I have been thinking this thing over all night. I haven\u2019t slept any over this.\u201d And she said, \u201c I mean just what I say.\u201d I says, \u201c If I am that kind of a man you and I certainly can\u2019t live together, and if you want to, decently let me know what you want; you and I had better separate if-you think that way of me.\u201d I came home to dinner; came home to supper and got my supper and that night I slept there; she was up stairs; and the next morning I got my breakfast. There was nothing said during this time, and I came back to dinner, and discovered that she had had a wagon there; had taken away a lot of goods from the house, and went away. I did not tell her to get out, nor words equivalent to that. I went to Mi. Ekart\u2019s to see my boy. \u2022 There was no objection made to my first call. The next time I called she met me. She says, \u201cWhat are you doing here?\u201d \u201cWell,\u201d I says, \u201cI come to see my boy.\u201d \u201cWell,\u201d she says, \u201cI don\u2019t want you to come around here at all.\u201d \u201cWell,\u201d I says, \u201cif the people of the house say so, I certainly won\u2019t come.\u201d \u201cWell, I don\u2019t want you to come. If you come around bothering me, I will go somewhere else.\u201d Says I, \u201c I can\u2019t help that, I want to see my little boy.\u201d Then I says, \u201c I am keeping this house open for you.\u201d She \u25a0 says, \u201c Don\u2019t you keep it open for me one\" minute; I will never live with you again.\u201d And then on the top of that she says, \u201c If I was your daughter, Lili, I would take a revolver and put a bullet in your head.\u201d The following day I received a letter from her first attorney in this case, stating that I must keep away from the house. So I stayed away from the house until I went there to see my boy when I heard that he was hurt. I never told her at any time to get out of the house, nor to keep away from the house.\nAs to making the terrible accusation of incest, appellee testified:\n\u201cIn my last conversation with Mr. Porter before leaving the house, I alluded to him as being the cause of his daughter\u2019s ruin. That is what I said. I charged him with what she said. He said there was nothing but brute instinct in me. He was angry.\nThe daughter testified that she never told appellee or any one else anything of the kind.\nAppellee testifies that her husband once expressed to her his belief that she was unduly intimate with a certain physician; if such statement was made, it was without cause; as related by appellant it seems to have been more the rude utterance of a coarse' man than an accusation to which any one attached importance.\nAppellee filed an amended bill verified by her oath, alleging that during the month of February or March, 1890, appellant asked her to have unnatural relations with him and sought to compel her to do so. That about the month of July, 1891, appellant did the same thing. She left him in February, 1893.\nThere was no evidence that would sustain this horrible charge; the court below found that it had not been proven, and at the hearing expressed the opinion that the charge of incest by appellant with his daughter was untrue, and that the court did not think appellee thought it true.\nAppellant was not a \u201c carpet knight to caper nimbly in a lady\u2019s chamber.\u201d He was a plain, rough, and according to the statements of appellee, coarse man; rising early, working late, among horses and hostlers. He had a bad habit of swearing when annoyed, as he often was, at household bills which he thought large and found it not easy to pay. Appellee came to hate him. She prayed to God that she might never see his hateful face again; she declared that she would die before she would cook for him again; behind his back she called him old devil and old Porter; she denies that she swore at, save in mocking of, him. She found time and had money to go to theaters and races; she denies the statements of disinterested witnesses that she bought lottery tickets. His amusement seems to have been confined to listening to the prattle of his boy. Had he been more of a gentleman he would not have used profane language, and he would have borne his wife\u2019s constant appeals for money for her personal convenience and pleasure with more equanimity, perhaps with greater acquiescence. Nevertheless, it is but just to say that there is nothing in this record showing that he ever failed to provide a comfortable home and support for his family, or that he ever refused to her spending money, when his pecuniary circumstances were such that, with due regard to his business and its obligations, he had it to give.\nHe was not a model husband, but he does seem to have made repeated efforts to end their bickering; to have felt that he owed to his wife some duty, and to have looked upon the marriage obligation as a thing of consequence.\nThe preponderance' of the evidence given by disinterested witnesses does not sustain her charges of brutal speech and conduct.\nHe seems to have suffered more than did she, and his patience was more severely tried by the course of their family life than was hers. Under the circumstances she could well have overlooked much in a man who saw his daughter\u2019s ruin following the persistence of appellee in bringing and keeping her brother James in the house.\nWhatever may be its effect, our statute as to separate maintenance was not intended to act as an encouragement to wives to leave their husbands.\nAs the wife of appellant, living with him, duties would rest upon her; burdens in respect to his comfort and the care of his family must be borne. By the decree in this case she is given a sum amounting to more than half of his entire income\u2014an income which he has only as the fruit of unremitting toil; while she is, under this decree, called upon to do no more than the \u201c lilies of the field.\u201d\nFew persons, men or women, would have acted more mildly than did he under the immediate cause of the separation\u2014her unjustified charge of incest. Groing away upon the strength of what he then said was not going away without fault upon her part.\nHe offered and still offers his home to her, to receive and treat her kindly; she is persistent in her refusal.\nShe is not \u201c without her fault living separate and apart from her husband.\u201d\nThe duties and obligations of marriage are altogether too frequently looked upon as something that may be shaken off at pleasure. The decree of the Superior Court is reversed and the bill dismissed.",
        "type": "majority",
        "author": "Mr. Presiding Justice Waterman"
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    ],
    "attorneys": [
      "Thornton & Chancellor, attorneys for appellant.",
      "Thompson, Hawes & McCaslin, attorneys for appellee."
    ],
    "corrections": "",
    "head_matter": "Robert Porter v. Mary A. Porter.\n1. Separate Maintenance\u2014Statutory Requisites.\u2014The living of a married woman separate and apart from her husband, in order to entitle her to a decree for separate maintenance, must be without her fault.\nBill for Separate Maintenance.\u2014Appeal from the Superior Court of Cook County; the Hon. John Barton Payne, Judge, presiding. Heard in this court at the March term, 1895.\nReversed, and bill dismissed.\nOpinion filed June 3, 1895.\nThornton & Chancellor, attorneys for appellant.\nThompson, Hawes & McCaslin, attorneys for appellee."
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  "file_name": "0670-01",
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